Divorce rates are high for women who have developed cancer. It's not an easy fight and changes you. Some men are willing to man up and go through the changes and seek couples therapy to deal with the drastic experience cancer brings and some just want to move on with their own life and be happy. My husband couldn't deal with my changes, his changes, our changes and definitely to abide by his word to the lord. He bailed not even 2 years after my diagnosis. Of course it was all my fault and i caused him so much unhappiness but no one can cause you unhappiness. Only you yourself causes your unhappiness. My scars were apparently too appalling as well because he resorted to contacting women to get naked pictures of them and sending naked pics of himself as well which he of course blamed on me as well. I made him do that too.